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South Salem NY Realtor | Eight Signs You’re Burned Out. Really?

In part one of this article we discussed four signs that may indicate you are burned out with work, school or just life in general. In part two, we will list four more signs as well as what you can do if you have experienced any them:

Feelings of depression. Many people confuse burnout with depression. However, there is a big difference between the two. While burnout often does feel like depression, it is brought on by making unwise choices to overwork your body and mind. Depression is caused by hormonal imbalances that are often related to outside forces. To cure burnout, you have to change the damaging behaviors. To get out of depression, you may need to take medicine that will help moderate your body’s chemical production. However, the emotional responses in both situations are the same and can cause a serious disturbance in your life.

Loss of motivation. If you have to force yourself to go to work everyday when you used to be excited about it, this is a clear sign of lost motivation. If you used to have goals in your career or family life, but now just hope to make it through one more day, this is a serious sign that you are taking on too much.

Emotions are muted. One of the saddest parts of burnout is that you are so distracted with doing too much that you don’t really get to enjoy any of it. If going out to a movie with your spouse and children used to make you feel excited and now just feels like another work assignment, you are probably burned out.

Habitual substance use. This sign is the most physically dangerous of all the signs previously discussed. To help them keep pace with a busy life, many people consume artificial stimulates such as sugar, caffeine, alcohol or even drugs. Too much of any one of these substances can cause you serious health problems later in life. Eating too much sugar can cause weight gain. Long-term caffeine use can cause insomnia as well as worsen other health conditions. Hopefully you are already aware of the detrimental effects of alcohol and drug consumption. People who are burned out are almost always users of over-the-counter stimulants. Dependance on any substance is dangerous.

If you can identify with one or more of the signs mentioned in parts one or two of this article, you should sit down and re-evaluate your life. Are you pushing yourself too hard when you don’t need to? Are you sacrificing things like family relationships in lieu of a successful career and money? If you are, then you are likely suffering from burnout. In order to stop the detrimental effects of burnout, you are going to have to make some changes in your life. The number one thing to start with is getting enough sleep. Once you have that down, everything else will slowly fall into place. Another thing that will help pull you out of your burnout is making time for regular exercise. The health benefits, both mentally and physically, are amazing. If you are feeling burned out, it’s time to take action. Make it sooner rather than later!

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Natalie Clive is a writer for MyCollegesandCareers.com. My Colleges and Careers provides online tools and services for prospective students that will help them start an online degree program today!

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Waccabuc Homes for Sale | The Highly Focused Athlete

Where is your focus, past, present or future?

At this very moment in time where are you? Are you thinking about a past event, wondering about the other athletes in the competition or tuned into what is going on here and now? Where you are now, whether past, future or present, makes a difference in your performance. Focusing on either the past or the future will pre-occupy your mind.

The Past

We all have moments when we didn’t perform at the top of our game. It’s a reality. How you  deal with those moments makes the difference between whether or not you win. By taking your performance too personally, or someone else blaming you, the memory becomes negatively embedded.

People are storytellers. Our memory is based upon perceptions, your point of view. When strong emotions are connected to an event, you create meaning about them. Your memory influences your beliefs, which in turn affects your reality.

The interesting fact is that you might be at the same event as your coach, but his experience is going to be different from yours. This is due to him having a different history and way of looking at things than you do.

Think about going to a movie with a friend. Your friend loved the movie while you found it boring. Well, life is like that. What might be significant for you, a memory you keep for years, will be forgotten by everyone else.

Now let’s get back to the event. What you perceive is based upon your past experiences. If something at today’s event reminds you of a previous event, your old memory will be triggered. This is normal. You can’t control a memory being triggered, but you can choose how you respond to it.

What do you do when this happens? Do you stay tuned into it making sure you don’t repeat your mistakes again or do you let it go easily?

Continuing to focus on a past event, particularly one where you did not perform your best, affects your focus. Thinking about what you don’t want to do, something you want to avoid, is a negative focus. Fear, doubt or worry become performance killers.

Your emotions elicit a physical response. Thinking about an earlier event because you don’t want to repeat the same mistake again, creates tension in your body. The tension causes a constrictive response in your muscles. As you know, tight muscles impact performance.

The Future

Future tripping. Thinking about some future event, which might or might not occur usually leads to anxiety. You are trying to control something, the future, which you have absolutely no control over, whatsoever. Consider all the times you worried about something happening and your expectations were much greater than the experience. The anxiety you experienced worrying about the future is very real although your thoughts were just preconceived notions. Something from your past affected how you perceived something in the future.

Just like focusing on a past event creates a physical response, thinking about the future does the same. By envisioning what might happen, you are actually affecting the outcome. Your brain is receiving subconscious cues.

Your brain is unable to discriminate between the actions you don’t and the actions you do want to take. Thinking about something negative places your brain on alert for cues reinforcing your negative perception. Likewise, when your focus is positive it will look for opportunities to turn those thoughts into a reality.

Okay, you have created a positive goal for the event and you are focusing on it. You are consciously aware of your goal and how you would like things to turn out.  You are moving in the right direction.

When your conscious focus and subconscious thoughts are not aligned, optimal performance will be a struggle. The conflicting energy contributes to an internal struggle. Your subconscious mind is stronger than your conscious will; it will prevail.

Improve your chances for a positive outcome. Align your subconscious beliefs with your conscious thoughts. The combination of conscious and subconscious thoughts aligned is powerful, improving the chances of reaching your goal. Changing the subconscious is possible.

The Present

People tend to live in the past or the future, although being in the present is the ideal. Where do you spend most of your time? Does past memories prevent you from saying yet to current opportunities?  Do you become anxious about the future, consumed with possibilities of what might happen? Or are you able to be in the present, tuned into the here and now?

Your best performance happens in the present, when you are fully engaged.

Focusing on what is before you in the moment is expansive. Your body is relaxed. Your mind is connected to what is happening right now.  All of your senses are dedicated to the present.

Senses become heightened, tuned into possibilities. Your subconscious is working with you for opportunities to win.

Activity: Think about a time when everything worked out as you anticipated, and it was easy. You experienced a flow, a rhythm, a connection. As if you were guided. This energy places you in the zone, where all the pieces come together as you envisioned it would. Use this imagery before your next competition, helping you to focus on what is possible.

The Expert Sports Performance System is an easy step-by-step process helping you to focus your energy on high performance, building your confidence to give you a winning edge. Winners act with speed. If you are reading this and it feels true for you, then get in touch with Loren for a FREE Discovery Session atinfo@expertsportsperformance.com

Loren Fogelman is the founder of Expert Sports Performance.com , a company devoted to teaching athletes around the globe how to consistently achieve peak performance levels, maintain focus during competitions and create the confidence to reach their BIG goals.

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Cross River Homes for Sale | 4 Tips to Help Lower Your Website’s Bounce Rate

In my previous Business 2 Community post, I talked about some statistics worth looking into when analyzing your website. One of these stats was bounce rate. In this post, I would like to share some tips on how you can lower your bounce rate and attempt to capture more of your website’s visitors. Simply described, the lower your bounce rate is the better. Your bounce rate percentage increases when a visitor lands on a page of your site and leaves without visiting any other pages. In my experience as an SEO, an average bounce rate is usually between 30-40%. Depending on the type of website, a high bounce rate might not necessarily be bad but that is a topic for another post. For now, here are a few tips:

  1. Relevant Content: In my opinion, poor, misleading content is the biggest contributor to a high bounce rate. If you are running a PPC campaign or analyzing an organic search campaign, your ad copy and website content should be related to one another. In addition to helping with your site’s search engine placement, relevant content will give your visitors a better experience and encourage them to check out other areas of your website and ultimately decrease your bounce rate.
  2. Website Layout: Poor website layout can also contribute to a higher than normal bounce rate. If you have hard to follow or non-existent navigation, poor text placement or no call to action, your visitors are going to get lost and they are going to leave your site. My best advice to you as a website owner is to keep it simple. Create navigation that is evident upon arrival and incorporate your content and calls to action in areas that are easy to find and follow. Your website visitor shouldn’t feel like they’ve entered a maze after arriving to your site.
  3. Overall Design: Similar to your website’s layout, the overall design and theme can play a role in contributing to your bounce rate in one way or another. If your site is cluttered with ads, pop-ups or graphics from the 90’s your visitors are more likely to leave your site before reading what you have to offer or visiting other areas of your site. Make your design appealing and easy on the eye and your graphics unique and professional. Treat your website visitor as you would a hotel guest and give them an experience they will remember and enjoy coming back to.
  4. Website Loading Time: If your website is jam packed with high-resolution images, flash components, takes forever to load and/or freezes your visitor’s machine, you will lose visitors and potential customers. Gucci’s website is a perfect example of this. Even on my 50Mb line, the site takes too long to load. Use website speed test tools or browser plug-ins such as Firefox’s Firebug to test your page load times. P.S., Google also takes into account your page load time in their search ranking algorithm so kill two birds with one stone by speeding up your pages’ load times.

The first step to improving your site’s bounce rate is to realize where potential issues lie and be willing to address them. If you are stuck in your ways and feel that your visitors should adapt to your site’s poor content, hard to follow navigation, ugly design and longer than normal page load times, be ready to deal with higher than average bounce rates and some pretty irritated visitors. For the best results, think outside of the box and put yourself in your visitors’ shoes when developing a new website or revamping a current one. Have you addressed your site’s bounce rate recently? If so, what type of actions have you taken in addition to the above mentioned ones?

Craig Kilgore is an SEO of 5 years, working out of Buffalo, NY at Mainstreethost which is an online marketing and business development company…. View full profile

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