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When it comes to blogging we all know that content is king and keeping things updated is the number one priority.
But how do you do that when you (at times literally) have a monkey on your back?
Between children, coworkers, construction, and other c words that stand for chaos, it is a wonder we can get anything written at all. This is when you need to develop some habits that create calm and order in the middle of mayhem.
Here are some tips on how to stay productive and writing, even when you have confusion knocking on your door:
1. Pick off times to write
It might be early in the morning, late in the afternoon or even in the middle of the night. You know when it is in your life. That time when everything seems to settle down for a little while, or right before it gets started all over again. If you can find this ‘prime time’ and get writing, you will be a lot more productive.
This might mean that you get up before everyone else, but so be it. If early morning is not your thing then try for mid afternoon. While everyone else is munching on chips and staring at the clock trying to see how many more minutes are left until it is time to go home, be productive and writing. If you are a night owl or have more flexible hours, the witching hour is a great time to get lots of writing done in peace and quiet.
I would not suggest writing time right after the kids get home from school, your spouse gets home from work, or during meal times. It may be just a wee bit distracting.
2. Set aside writing time every day
Beyond just finding opportune times to write you also need to make a habit of it. Making writing a part of your day like any other necessity (eating, sleeping, etc.) can make it feel like less of a struggle. Habits are easy to form and hard to break, so make it a habit to write.
When you set aside a certain time every day you also get less crud from those around you. If you are always busy at 4pm then chances are that nosy coworker will stop bothering you after a week or two. The same thing goes for working at home. If the neighbor wants to chat every afternoon but you are busy elsewhere they will eventually get the picture.
Setting aside a set time means fewer interruptions and more work accomplished. Setting aside the same time every day also means that your brain will be ready to cooperate with you when you sit down. It is used to gearing up for writing around this time, and just like getting hungry around noon you will start to get antsy to write around your accustomed time.
What a great natural motivator, right?
3. Make your own space
When it comes to chaos, a closed door is definitely your friend. Pick a space to write where you can get away from it all. The living room or kitchen is not it, as is anywhere close to the water cooler or coffee pot. Places where others hang out are not a good spot for a writing space. Instead, try to find a quiet corner or better yet a room with a door you can shut and tune out the rest of the world.
You should also set up an environment that promotes writing. A solid desk, a chair that is ergonomic and other basic necessities are a good idea. Do not try to use the edge of your bed or balance your laptop on a windowsill. I have seen it. It is not pretty and not conducive to writing long term. In order to be a really productive writer you also need to be organized. That means keeping your office space your own. I know that is not always doable, but do your best to keep your stuff in your hands only.
4. Crank up the tunes
If noise is your problem, then I recommend investing in a good headset or ear buds. Crank up the music and get writing. For some people (like me) music with lyrics is out. I have a tendency to listen to the lyrics instead of concentrate on what I am writing. For those like me, I recommend either instrumental only music or nature sounds like ocean waves or rain.
Remember that the faster the beat, the faster you type.
If you are stressed and need to think, turn on calm music. But if you want to get writing fast, crank up something a little quicker.
5. Turn off the phone
There is almost no situation where you can’t turn off your phone for an hour or two. Alert the masses with a text and then shut it off. No one will pine away by not being in contact with you for a short time. Remember the time before cell phones? So do I! Harken back to a quitter, more independent time and shut it off.
6. Get unsocial
If social media is your time waster of choice then shut it down. You do not have to check Facebook, Twitter and Pinterest every five minutes. You will not miss anything. I have found myself losing hours of valuable writing time on social media. Instead, you can use it as a reward. ‘If I write two pages I can look at three Tweets’ and so on.
I think you will find that you will not miss it after a while.
7. Learn what an emergency is
There are emergencies and then there are emergencies. Some things can wait and others can’t. Learn to tell the difference and prioritize. Giving the dog a bath can wait until after writing time. Taking your child to the hospital can’t. Make writing a high priority and then think before you act.
Remember it is okay to tell people ‘no’ or ‘later’.
8. Take notes
When I sit down to write, especially in a chaotic environment, most of the time I blank out completely. I can’t think of a single one of the great ideas I had to write about just days or even hours ago. Instead of losing all those great thoughts to the chaos that is my life, I have started to carry around a pen and notebook with me wherever I go. That way when inspiration strikes I can catch it!
Taking the time to write down a reminder is a very valuable thing to do. Do not think a word or two will suffice either. I still have a paper with ‘blindfolded coconut’ written on it and I have no idea what that means, but I remember it was incredible. Instead of just a word or two take a few moments to write down the whole idea, outline and all if need be. Make sure to make a list of the important points and possible title ideas.
The best thoughts often happen at the most inopportune of times, but do not let that stop you from capturing them and saving them for great writing fodder later. You can also do this when unusual or interesting things happen in your life. Hear about a great site? Write it down? See something cool? Write it down.
Like a photographer always needing a camera with them, writer always need to carry a notebook and write down the ideas as they come up. That can save you a lot of frustration and give you some great ideas when you are drawing a blank.
These are just a few of the ways that I have learned to write despite the junk going on around me. Most of our lives are not a calm sea rather they are more like a hurricane.
Sometimes you just have to do your best to hang on and keep going.
Guest Author: This guest post is contributed by Debra Johnson, blogger and editor of www.liveinnanny.com
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This is the Internet, where two things are never in short supply: information and opinions. If you’re the new guy (or girl) looking to establish yourself in the ranks here, or you’ve been online for more than five minutes, there’s something you’ll need to recognize:
Just Because You Read It Online Doesn’t Make It True
Shocking, I know.
There’s a lot of people and a lot of businesses dispensing advice. You’ll need to recognize quickly how to consider your source. If last week’s blog included something about flying pigs or the sky being green, then you immediately recognize that their opinions about the latest industry news could very easily be B.S.
Or maybe it’s coming from a good source, but you simply don’t agree.
That’s cool too.
No matter how prolific the source of the advice, if you have a legitimate, well thought out argument…
It’s OK To Disagree With The Talking Heads
Be the smart person your mother knows that you are. Be professional. But most of all, if you want to stand out from the thousands of other search results you’re balled up with, BE YOURSELF.
Don’t just repackage the same tips and tricks that the top websites in your industry are publishing. By the time you hit publish, that information will be stale, and you will have added nothing new to the conversation.
Why not give us your twist on the information?
Tell us what you think. Has one of the tips worked for you in the past? Is one of the tips just doomed to failure? That’s more interesting to your audience than mindlessly reciting the information.
Tell us about yourself.
What makes you tick? How does the essence of who you are as a person play into who you are as a business person? Tell us how one of your real world interests relates to your business.
A personal example: I love coffee. A simple light roast, black coffee will do. Love the flavor. I’ve written before about keeping your simplest products visible. Not everyone’s looking for a drink with a name that’s six words long.
How does your background relate?
When you’re busy trying to distinguish yourself from hundreds of other businesses in your area, trust me, it matters. There’s something about your background that makes you different from others’. It’s up to you to find out what it is.
For instance, copywriters are a dime a dozen. A copywriter with a journalistic background can find ways to tell your story.
Pick up the scissors, and cut off the tie.
Formal and professional are not the same thing. You can wear blue jeans and still know what you’re talking about. If formal is not a true reflection of your business, don’t turn into something you’re not.
Give us good info, but give it in a way that is a reflection of who you are.
We’re more likely to act if we like you.
We can’t make any decision on your likability if we don’t know who you are. So go ahead and put your cards on the table.
The Internet Is Watered Down
There are so many businesses out there, it’s too easy to get lost in the shuffle. You need to stand out to be noticed. This doesn’t happen through imitation. It’s time to just be yourself.








