Ask anyone who has survived and succeeded in real estate what the key to his or her success was and most likely you will hear something close to this: “Never forget it’s a relationship business.”
While the widget we work with is houses, buildings and land, what we really sell is something invisible. It’s our service, it’s our knowledge, and it’s our expertise. We provide direction, understanding and hopefully trust.
If we do it right, we get to do it again and again, earning our clients business for more than just one transaction but for repeat business and hopefully referral opportunities. Our “life cycle” of a client is much longer than, say, a grocery store, a restaurant, an airline or hotel chain, because people don’t buy and sell homes every day. It could be years before people get a chance to use us again. That’s why it’s all the more important that we maintain and strengthen those relationships to increase our chances for referral business from our satisfied clients.
Losing our spot at the top of their mind
Each year, the National Association of Realtors publicizes the results from the Home Buyer and Seller profile, and each year the gap between clients who love us and clients who forget us remains large.
According to the 2011 profile, 65 percent of buyers said they would definitely use their real estate agent again or recommend the same agent to others, yet only 9 percent of all buyers in 2011 used a previous agent to buy the home they purchased.
On the seller side of the transaction, 69 percent of people who sold in 2011 said they definitely would use the agent again or recommend to others, and 16 percent said they probably would.
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So let’s do the math: 85 percent of sellers said they definitely or probably would use the same agent or recommend them, but only 9 percent of buyers actually did. That’s 74 percent of buyers that were either forgotten about or didn’t have a compelling reason to maintain the relationship.
So what can you do to minimize the chances of losing a chance for future business and maximize the chances to gain “clients for life”? Simply keep in touch!
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K – Involve or ask about the kids. There is one topic that most people are 100 percent experts on and love to talk about: their kids. Chances are when you were working with them during the purchase or sale of their home, you learned about their family and heard stories about their children’s school, sports or social life. You may have shared common ground on parenting issues or got advice from an older couple whose kids are older than yours. Sometimes it’s us that are the ones giving advice on the “terrible twos” or handling a teenager.
It’s so important that you build rapport and earn trust early in your relationship with your clients so you can learn about the other members of the family that will be end users of the home or benefit from the sale.
Ask about their school activities, sporting endeavors, hobbies and interests. Listen to their “favorites” so when you score those tickets to a boy band concert you’ll never attend you will know which client’s tween-age daughter you will be a hero to.
And don’t forget people’s pets. For many animal lovers, their pets are just as much a part of the family as the children are. Any time you can ask about Fido or Mittens, do it.
E – Events are a great point of conversation with your former clients and others in your sphere of influence. You can look at the macro-level events happening in and around your city (music festivals, fairs, art shows) or even at the micro-level activities in the neighborhoods or subdivisions such as Easter egg hunts, garage sales or block parties.
Keeping your contacts in the know is great, but taking time to make them the focus of your call is even better — so events like birthdays, anniversaries or any other special occasion are a great reason to reach out and touch someone. Facebook has made it almost too easy to recognize people’s birthdays, but a “have a great day” post on their wall gets missed after 50 people have left messages before and after you. Instead, reach out with a phone call, a personal visit or a video message using a video tool like Eyejot or FaceTime.
Anniversaries are always special occasions worth recognizing, but even for your single clients, how about reaching out to them on the anniversary of when they bought or sold their home? “Hey, Mr. Sullivan. Happy anniversary. Can you believe it’s been five years since you purchased that home? How’s everything in the neighborhood these days?”
E – Email should be one of your main ways to stay in touch with people because it’s easy and, in most cases, free. The first thing most people do when they wake up each day is reach for their mobile phone to check their email, and, at the end of the day, they give their inbox a glance before shutting down. There has to be an opportunity for you to catch their attention sometime between sunrise and sunset, no?
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If you’re looking for more ideas about how to leverage email into your keep-in-touch system, check out the recent webinar hosted by Inman’s chief evangelist, Chris Smith, in which he shared 25 Awesome Email Marketing Tips.
P – Make your contacts personal as much as possible. Sure, it’s great to create easily duplicated templates and mass mail your list of contacts, but it will be obvious to the recipient that it was a generic effort. Seek opportunities to be specific and unique with your connections.
Think about the last few contacts you have had with people. Does it make a difference if they use your name and make direct eye contact? How about if they really seem interested in you? Anyone with any sales training has heard the concept of F-O-R-D, right? Ask about their family, their occupation (job), recreational activities (hobbies, interests) and dreams. Where are they going on vacation? What are their plans for the holidays? What will they do when the kids all leave home for college?
I – Invites and Improvements. One of the best ways to deepen a relationship is to make it more than just a few postcards or emails throughout the year. A systematic contact like an e-newsletter or calendar card is great, but getting those face-to-face opportunities is even better.
Invite your contacts to an event that you and your broker might be hosting. Call them when you’re headed to the local pub and offer to buy ‘em a beer. If you have an open house in their neighborhood, invite them to pop over and see you. Just think — they might know someone who wants to buy the house.
Improvements are also something on most homeowners’ minds. They either want to update or repair something, or maybe they wonder if it’s even worth doing because they may be moving soon and can’t figure out if the return on investment would be worth it. Can you find a way to share an overview of what additions, repairs and improvements help add the most value to their home? You can always find a generic report like the one at CostvsValue.com, or you might want to get more specific by creating a few blog posts where you interview local contractors, appraisers and service providers.
N – What’s new? You want to be looked at as the neighborhood expert? When people think of “in the know,” are they thinking of you? Who is the “go to” guy or girl in your area for all things?
A great reason to reach out to someone is to share something with them that they might not know.
What is that new building going up on the corner going to be? Where did the weatherman on the local ABC affiliate come from? How challenging is the new golf course or what’s the food and service like at the new bistro on the town square?
You know who does a great job with this in our business? Chris Smith and Katie Lance and their team of experts at local Agent Reboot events are always sharing new tools, tricks and techniques with their followers and friends, and, because of it, they have earned a spot in our “trusted adviser” list.
T – Thanks. It’s such a great reason to reach out to people that we have an entire holiday focused on it. You would be hard-pressed to sit at your desk on any day and not come up with someone you could say “thanks” to. Have you reached out to the last few people who have sent you a referral? I’m sure you thanked them at the time they sent you the name, but what about now that the transaction is in progress?
How about a neighbor for watching your house while you were away? A friend for inviting you to a movie? The barista at Starbucks for the extra shot of espresso the other day when you weren’t operating at full speed?
“I would maintain that thanks are the highest form of thought, and that gratitude is happiness doubled by wonder.” ~G.K. Chesterton
O – One-on-one contact is the best because it really allows you to make the contact about them, not you. We mentioned earlier that making the contact personal was important, and one of the ways you can do that is make it in person. These can be scheduled appointments or sometimes, for even more impact, completely random “pop-bys” to say hello, drop off cookies or flowers, or maybe even those extra set of tickets to the ball game that you won’t be able to use but you were hoping your client could take his son who is home visiting from college?
What’s your schedule like this week for coffee? Call a client now and plan to meet for a cup of joe.
How’s your lunch calendar looking? Could you squeeze in a sandwich with someone from your neighborhood?
Happy hour? Arrange to meet up with an old friend or co-worker and share some laughs.
Even just a few minutes of face time in the aisles of a grocery store will be infinitely better time spent than generic postcards to random residents.
U – Updates on the market help to reinforce that you are the professional when it comes to real estate. This could be a regular blog post you write or as easy as harnessing your local MLS reports and delivering them to your sphere of influence. Do you run a “hot sheet” each day on your market place? How often do you reach out to someone who lives near one of the new listings or perhaps shoot an email to the person who lives down the block from the latest sale?
“Greetings Diane – Just wanted to let you know that the house down the street finally sold. It ended up selling for 94 percent of the asking price.
By the way, I hope we’ll see you at the club this Saturday night. It’s family night at the pool so make sure you pack the kids’ swimsuits. We’ll save you a table.”
C – Community is what a great Realtor is all about — being part of the workforce but also being part of the tapestry that makes up the area we call home. What can you do to help the local small-business owners in your area? How can you serve as a liaison between your schools and residents? Can you help spread the word about the local parks or library’s needs for volunteers?
What can you be to be the “source of the source” in and around your community?
Do it because being a part of the community is the right thing to do, not because you’re looking for business. When you have the right intent, others will see that and want to do business with you.
It’s funny how that always seems to work out that way.
H – Holidays are an easy reason to touch base with others yet we so often overlook them because “life gets in the way.” Of course the big holidays like Christmas and Easter, the Fourth of July and Thanksgiving seem to get lots of attention and deservedly so. But if every other Realtor in your town is sending Thanksgiving cards or putting out American flags on the Fourth of July, how are you going to stand out, be unique and, most importantly, memorable?
I remember one year I invited all of my friends and contacts to meet me at one of the local Irish pubs on St. Patrick’s Day. I called, emailed and texted people and said that I was going to be there in the afternoon and if they had the time to stop by, I’d buy them a beer. I ran into a few and we enjoyed some cold ones together and caught up on their lives. It was great.
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The real impact of my invite came after the holiday when I would run into people who didn’t make it to the pub. They would start by apologizing that they couldn’t make it to my event and wished they would have been there. Most of them offered a rain check of sorts and asked if we could meet up another time.
Imagine that — just by inviting people to a place I was going to be anyway, St. Patrick’s Day became “my event at that pub.” How can you hijack a holiday and make it your own?
What’s your approach to holidays like April Fool’s Day, Memorial Day, Labor Day or Halloween? Could you reach out to any mother you knew the week of Mother’s Day and tell her about a special brunch location in the area? Would any of the fathers meet you for a round of golf on Father’s Day? Wouldn’t it be fun to share some funny voice messages or prank calls with good friends on April Fool’s Day?
So there are some pretty easy ideas to keep in touch with people you already know. They say it’s cheaper to keep an existing client than it is to earn a new one, but it may not be easier. You’ve got to invest your time and follow a system.
Keep it simple and remember that people want to do business with people they like. Just focus on building relationships, solving problems and having fun, and your chances for success will be high.
Daily Archives: July 11, 2012
Will and Jada Help Drill Clean Water Well in Ethiopia | Chappaqua NY Real Estate
Will Smith and his wife Jada Pinkett-Smith have a desire to help developing nations. The couple teamed up with charity:water in 2010 and raised $109,000 for the non-profit organization by asking fans to donate as their birthday wish. Fans did donate and charity:water was able to bring clean water to those most in need. An additional $789,000 was raised for the non-profit by caring, inspired fans.
The celebrity couple recently took a trip to Ethiopia with charity:water and spent time with the people of Maego village, Tigray, a small village of 400 people in need of clean water. The Smith’s had gone to Ethiopia to witness the construction of a brand-new clean water well in the village. The couple even got a chance to man the organization’s new drilling rig, Yellow Thunder, as it drilled its 31st clean water well.
Smith said in a statement, “Our trip to Ethiopia with charity:water was an incredible eye-opening and and authentic experience. It was extraordinary to meet and spend time with the people of Tigray and to see first-hand how clean water changes everything for these communities.”
There are approximately 50 million people still living in Ethiopia without clean water. Will and Jada’s mission on charity:water reads: “We view contribution and service as a celebration of one’s gifts. We celebrate the grace that has been bestowed upon us as we honor our gifts through sharing them. There are men, women and children who, right now, do not have clean water to drink –we celebrate the fact that we are able to help quench their thirst. We believe every person on the planet should have access to clean drinking water.”
Charity:water uses 100% of donations for water projects. The non-profit uses photos and GPS coordinates in Google Maps to prove the water projects are being completed. In the past five years the non-profit has funded water projects in 20 countries bringing clean water to communities that are in dire need.
LinkedIn: Behaving Appropriately on the Business Networking Site | Pound Ridge Real Estate
LinkedIn is to the business world what Facebook is to the rest of it: a social networking site where individuals can exchange information and connect with others they know. Unlike Facebook, LinkedIn is primarily used to connect with colleagues, clients, and other business professionals, working to share work-related details and data that would not be shared on a network such as Facebook. LinkedIn simply takes the age old practice of networking within the business world and takes it to the Internet, allowing those who use the network to quickly and reliably build a network of connections within their industry.
While there is little question that LinkedIn can serve an incredibly valuable purpose, it is essential for those who opt to use this service to behave ethically when conducting activities on LinkedIn. Failure to do so could actually hurt the career of the user, should a business individual find out that an unethical behavior has occurred. Beyond the potential ramifications, businessmen and women are also expected to follow certain ethical and moral codes, both in their professional and personal lives. This is simply because it is the right thing to do.
Recommendations
One of the areas that can be a bit tricky to navigate is Recommendations. Recommendations serve as a way to give potential employers and clients a snapshot of who you are and how you operate. While there is absolutely no issue in asking a satisfied client or a previous employer to leave their feedback, you do not want to ask someone who is merely a friend to write this recommendation. For example, some LinkedIn users may be tempted to exchange recommendations for an acquaintance and friend, leaving stellar feedback about how wonderful the individual in question is at what they do. This is not only a breach of ethics, but it won’t give others a clear idea of what the candidate is capable of in a professional environment.
Instead of opting for this easy route, ask previous employers to leave feedback. If you haven’t had many previous positions, it may instead be valuable to ask a professor or supervisor from an internship to leave a recommendation. If you plan to ask one of these individuals for input, perform a precursory search on LinkedIn to see if they are already using the network. This can help cover your bases and avoid lengthy ordeals teaching someone how to use LinkedIn.Be subtle
It’s also important to operate in a subtle manner on LinkedIn. Much like in the offline business world, LinkedIn is not the place to broadcast that one is looking for any available job. Instead, LinkedIn is about building connections that could potentially lead to a position with a firm who is hiring. Make your prime focus connecting with others. This will help to eliminate the frustration of not finding a job immediately, and also make you look much better to others on LinkedIn. If you do connect with someone who knows of an available job, at that point you will be able to target your attention on the job hunt where it belongs.
Conclusion
You also want to focus on connecting with people in an authentic and genuine manner. When adding someone on LinkedIn, send them a quick message explaining why you would like to connect. Don’t make this a generic message simply stating you want to be connected, but explain how you came across their profile and why you think it would be a good idea to connect on LinkedIn. By following some of these tips, you will make certain your activity on LinkedIn remains ethical and you are operating in a respectable manner.
Home Prices Continue to Move Higher, No Matter the Measure | Bedford NY Real Estate
The May Existing Home Sales release published in late June showed another strong rise in home prices from a year ago – 7.9 percent for the median priced existing home sold. This marks the third consecutive month of year-over-year gains according to NAR data.
Today’s release of prices as measured by Clear Capital show a similar trend – June prices are up 1.7 percent compared to one year ago, and this is the second month of a year-over-year gain according to this data. [1]
Other home price measures show the same pattern. CoreLogic data show three consecutive months of year-over-year gains beginning in March 2012, while FHFA shows positive year-over-year growth starting in February and continuing through April, the most recently released month of data. Gains in the CoreLogic data are between one and two percent while FHFA shows gains of up to three percent year-over-year. Case Shiller data has yet to show year-over-year gains, but declines as measured by Case Shiller have decreased and gains have been seen month-to-month.
In summary, many house price measures are pointing to the same trend: increasing home prices. Demand has finally caught up to supply, restoring market balance and more typical price performance.
[1] Clear Capital provides little public information on its rolling quarter methodology makes it difficult to determine the time-frame of the contract signings and closings used in the data.
Realtors® Continue to Report Rising Rents for Residential Properties | Bedfod Hills Homes
Higher residential rents were reported by 54 percent of Realtors®, as reported in the May Realtors® Confidence Index. Lower rents were reported by 11 percent of Realtors®. Constant rents were reported by 16 percent of Realtors®. In recent months the majority of respondents are reporting annual rent increases, with lower rents becoming much less common. The continued trend of rising rents increases the value of homeownership.
NAR Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers: For-Sale-by-Owner (FSBO) Sellers | Katonah Real Estate
- The share of home sellers who sold their home without the assistance of a real estate agent was 10 percent. Forty percent of those sellers knew the buyer prior to home purchase.
- The primary reason that sellers choose to sell their home without the assistance of a real estate agent to a buyer they did not know was that they did not want to pay a fee or commission (37 percent).
- More than one-third of FSBO sellers took no action to market their home, and 59 percent did not offer any incentives to attract buyers.
- The typical FSBO home sold for $150,000 compared to $215,000 among agent-assisted home sales.
- For more information from the annual Profile of Home Buyers and Sellers, click here >





It’s also important to operate in a subtle manner on LinkedIn. Much like in the offline business world, LinkedIn is not the place to broadcast that one is looking for any available job. Instead, LinkedIn is about building connections that could potentially lead to a position with a firm who is hiring. Make your prime focus connecting with others. This will help to eliminate the frustration of not finding a job immediately, and also make you look much better to others on LinkedIn. If you do connect with someone who knows of an available job, at that point you will be able to target your attention on the job hunt where it belongs.
