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My 3 Words for 2011 | Bedford Corners Realtor

Every year, I come up with three words that will be my guiding pillars for what I will focus on in the coming year. Instead of resolutions, which don’t usually help me very much, I work hard on using these words as a lighthouse for my actions and efforts. Here are my 3 words for 2011:

Reinvest. Package. Flow.

Reinvest – I will reinvest in my efforts in all areas of life that matter to me. I won’t phone it in. I have some fitness goals. I can’t keep playing at it. I have some financial goals that will be met. I have community goals that require me to reinvest in my projects and not take on new things.

Package – I just wrote about packaging the other day. Essentially, I’m going to get my own marketing house in order. I’m going to make sure things make sense, make sure they are easy to understand, and make sure that the right people know about them. Packaging will have other meanings, too, but this one is important to me in 2011.

Flow – In the last few months of 2010, I came to realize that I’m still doing too much. I went into redrawing mode yet again. One thing I have to do much better in 2011 is manage flow: that state of working on the most important stuff and eliminating distractions. I’ve cut a lot out of my original plans for 2011. I’ll surely cut a little more. The end result? Things will come out much better. I’ll have less stress. Things will flow nicely.

3 Words Aren’t Goals

The three words idea is built so that you can have something to reflect upon. As you know, goals should be SMART ( Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Realistic and Timely). The way you use the two together is that you think up goals that will match up to your words. For instance, one goal of mine in 2011 that ties to “reinvest” is to lose 50 pounds over 10 months. 5 pounds a month is specific, measurable, achievable, realistic, and timely.

There you go.

Your 3 Words

I asked the people who read my free newsletter about personal development and business growth what their three words are for 2011. Here’s what they answered:

  • Alexandra – Creativity, Growth, Simplicity
  • Martha – Focus, Connect, Momentum
  • Debbie – Touch, Storytelling, Create
  • Rebekkah – Reclaim, Rewrite, Renew
  • Vicki – Passion, Confidence, Balance
  • Debra – Clients, Reputation, Smarts
  • Nick – Smile, Fight, Create
  • Ginny – : Basics, Balance and Gratitude.
  • Marge – Perseverance, wellbeing, manifest.
  • Justin – Kitchen, owners, stories.
  • Laurie – Launch, Interconnect, Allow
  • Sue – Bold, Tribe-Mesh, Be.
  • Paula – Action, Collaboration, Freedom
  • Joanna – Love, Passion, Action
  • Sonya – Publish, Productive, Value
  • Gail – Write, Speak, Read.
  • Robin – Ask, Do, Share.
  • Jill – Blog, Persevere, and Brand.
  • Patti – Grow, Contribute, Action.
  • Meghan – Mind, Body, Spirit
  • Margot – Integrate, Connect, Finish
  • Dana – Creativity, Independence, Outreach.
  • Jonathan – Quality, Help, and Perseverance.
  • Sam – Ship. Learn. Collaborate.
  • West – Servitude, Submission, Integrity.
  • David – Renew, Rethink, and Remove.
  • Chrystie – Focus, Follow-Through, Grow.
  • Jennifer – Relationships, Flow, Growth
  • Shayna- Secure, Execute, Close
  • Christian – Ideas, Love, Consistency.
  • JoAnn – Relationship, Health, Productive.
  • Jeffrey – Integrity, Wisdom, Patience
  • Anne – JUICY. SO WHAT? and WORTHY
  • Shel – Columns. Book.  Leverage.
  • Mike – Ask, Do, Share.
  • Louise – Pleasure, People, Publish, Practice.
  • Andrew and Donna – Process, Content, Leadership.
  • Roland – Story, Partners, Sales.
  • Bryony – Write, Listen, Action.
  • Michael – Produce, Plan, Ask.
  • Debbie – Honor, Stretch, Organize.
  • Robin – Let Them Talk, Or, Listen Listen Listen.
  • Jason – Execute, Learn, Share.
  • Conga – Discernment, Enjoy, Educate.
  • Kathy – Integrity, Accountability, Tenacity.
  • David – Development, Solutions, Digital.
  • Leon – Facebook, Twitter, Linkedin (needs to learn all three).
  • Julie – Create, Execute, Deliver
  • Melissa – Create, Care, Promote.
  • Sara – Study. Pursue. Persevere.
  • Benji – Prospect, Follow-through, Integrity.
  • Adam – Project, Resolute, Legacy.
  • Christopher – Commitment, Connecting, Caring.
  • Kathy – Focus, Produce, Balance.
  • Mike – See, Imagine, Show.
  • Zane – Keep. Moving. Forward.
  • Jill – Ask, Grow, Matter.
  • Sharon – Dream, Do, Gratitude.
  • Kimberly – Health, Truth, Thrive.
  • Dimitri – Move, Grow, Share.
  • Susan – Focus, Grow, Connect.
  • Amruta – Ask, Do, Share.
  • Eric – Adapt, Support, Teach.
  • David – Remarkable, Share, Understand.
  • C.C. – Create, Inspire, Teach.
  • Beth – Challenge, Empower, Collaborate.
  • Lisa – Passion, Balance, Giving Back.
  • Barry – Focus, Consistency, Write.
  • Heather – Wealth, Freedom, Fun.
  • Siobhan – Learn, Stretch, Give.
  • Eileen- Enlighten, Do, Grow.
  • Laurie – Wholeness, Notice, Release.
  • Michelle – Own, Reflect, Try.
  • Christian – Select, Execute, Review
  • Pam – Prioritize, Empathize, Collaborate.
  • Adam – Create, Connect, Move
  • Jack – Freedom, Authority, Conversation.
  • Phyllis – Connect, Undaunted, Execution.
  • Alex – Responsibility, Integrity, Civility.
  • Thomas – Love, Live, Laugh.
  • Bella – Embrace, Act, Care.
  • Jamie – Give, Go, Be.
  • Deb – Innovation, Recognition, Sustainability.
  • Diana – Courage, Relationships, Focus.
  • Josh – Epic, Sustainable, Togetherness.
  • Daniel – Exponential, Residual, Communal.
  • Eric – Ecosystem, Momentum, Hero Frame.
  • Kristelle – Breathe, Stretch, Irresistible Influence.
  • Serita – Exceed, Grow, Gratitude.
  • Lori – Intuition, Motivation,Organization.
  • Bill – Remarkable, Memorable, Valuable.
  • Mat – Listen, Learn, Develop.
  • Margie – Teach, Learn, Live.
  • Sue – Get OUT There!
  • Rebecca – Grow, Connections, Balance.
  • Julia – Freedom, Fascination, Fun.
  • Caren – Innovate, Engage, and Generate.
  • Rex – Discipline, Delivery and Sharing.
  • Glenda – Transformation, Freedom, and Instincts.
  • Jeff – Finish.
  • Jacqueline – Centralize, Bulldoze, Infect.
  • Mark – Create. Connect. Give-Back.
  • Chad – Learn, Reflect, Act.
  • Marcy – Live, Love, Lead.
  • Barbara – Stop. Talk. Live.
  • LaTara – Life, Love, and Liberty.
  • Joel – Focus. Expect. Exercise.
  • Jim – Customers, Content, and Strategy.
  • Christine – Expand, Focus, Nurture.
  • Gin – Iterate, Beauty, Home.
  • Colleen – Process, Detail, Faith.
  • Stephanie – Faith, Family, Collaboration.
  • Matt – Trajectory, Triples, Diamond Filters.
  • Ardath – Story, Grow, Teach.
  • Allan – Learn, Implement, Blossom.
  • Jessica – Integrate, Focus, Expand.
  • Gail – Ask, Receive, Free Spirit.
  • John – Start, Stop, Continue.
  • Daniel – Concentrate, Collaborate, Deliver.
  • Lynn – Connecting, Articulating, Performing.
  • Gilda – Speaker, Author/Book, Information Products.
  • Diane – Focus, Educate, Produce.
  • Hadass – Move, Learn, Seek.
  • Jody – Relationships, Grow, Build.
  • Julianne – Responsibility, Exercise, Passion.
  • Tom – Conscious, Present, Mirth.
  • Jennifer – Save, Invest, Choose.
  • Angela – Connect, Lead, Mentor.
  • Chrissy – Energy, Passion, Knowing.
  • Eugen – Grow, Build, Ecosystems.
  • Ray – Proactive, Punctual, Relationships.
  • Jessica – Bones, Breath, Reach.
  • Hubertus – Storytelling, Grow, Stuff.
  • Nick – Grow, Create, Community.
  • Jim – Believe, Do, Own, Family.
  • Tomasz – Learn, Love, Lead.
  • Glen – Do, Increase, Expert.
  • Darren – Engage, Create, Learn.

And You?

What are your three words for 2011? How will you guide your actions?

Related posts:

  1. My 3 Words for 2010
  2. Plan for a Better 2011
  3. My Speaking Plans for 2011
  4. Blogs as Attraction Engines
  5. My Three Words for 2008


Is septic inspection really necessary? | Bedford Hills NY Homes

Is septic inspection really necessary?

Some buyers say ‘water test’ is enough to assess condition

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DEAR BARRY: When we bought our home, we did not have the septic system professionally inspected. Instead, we ran water at the sinks, bathtub and shower for more than an hour. There were no backups, so we thought everything was OK because our water test exceeded normal use. Recently, the system was serviced, and we learned that the septic tank is substandard and will soon collapse if not replaced. Are the sellers and real estate agent liable for their failure to disclose this condition? –Ryan

DEAR RYAN: The sellers and agent were required to disclose the problem only if they knew about it. It is highly unlikely that the agent knew the condition of a buried tank. The sellers, on the other hand, may or may not have known, depending on whether there was a septic inspection during the time they owned the property.

But regardless of who knew, your agent and the sellers’ agent should have recommended that the septic system be inspected. That would have been normal procedure in the course of the transaction. There was simply no excuse for letting that go by. If you were advised to have a septic inspection but declined to have one, that was a decisive mistake.

It was also a mistake to think that a water test would provide an adequate evaluation of the system. There are many kinds of septic problems that are undetectable by merely running water down the drains. A proper septic inspection involves opening the tank and draining the contents to expose the condition of the interior. The fact that sinks and showers were draining had no bearing on the condition of the tank. A septic tank can be collapsing and still allow water to drain. Someone should have advised you accordingly.

DEAR BARRY: When we bought our house, the home inspector said he suspected a gas leak in the crawlspace under the building. The seller hired a plumbing company to find the leak. According to the plumber’s invoice, all gas lines were checked and no leaks were found. He determined that the house had been vacant for months and the dry drain traps were allowing sewer gases to enter the building. But after we moved in, the gas smell persisted, so we called the gas company. They found a gas leak that was so dangerous we were ordered out of the house immediately. Do we have recourse with the seller or the plumber? –Becky

DEAR BECKY: The sellers apparently acted in good faith. They hired a licensed plumber to repair the gas leak that was discovered by your home inspector. They appear, therefore, to be free of liability. The plumber, however, appears to have been professionally negligent, having failed to discover the gas leak or its source. What we don’t know is how the plumber tested the system for leaks. A common method, after checking all fittings and fixtures, is to turn off the supply valves at all fixtures and then to observe the gas meter to see if the reading changes. Unless the gas leak was intermittent rather than continuous, the plumber should assume some responsibility for the repair costs.